I recently asked a client: What would you like me to write about on my blog?
And he replied: “Every day I bring a mask to work. I pretend I like what I do, but I don’t. I want to quit but I can’t find a new job. What can I do to change this situation? What’s your advice?”
This is my recipe:
- Heartfelt thank you. You have to express gratitude for everything you have learnt in your job, your training, the clients you have met, your bosses and all your personal development all these years. With all your heart.
- Release your present position. You have to imagine you are going to quit tomorrow. So you have to declutter your desk and files, clean your computer and be ready to leave, as if someone has been hired to be in your position. You also have to forgive and be in peace with your coworkers and bosses. This is essential. Afterwards, you have to go on with your daily work as professionally as you can, with joy and full responsibility. This way you are ready and you have made space for something new.
- Trust: everything is possible. Maybe this is the hardest step for many people. Once you have given thanks and released your job to someone who will be delighted to get what you have now, you have to trust yourself and sow new seeds. It’s time to send your curriculum vitae, and wait and trust. If you didn’t take the previous two steps, you would still be holding many energetic ties with your current job. Don’t you see it? Balloons cannot fly if they are still tied to your wrist, even if the ties are very thin. Start with the first two steps as soon as possible.
You can also review the spiritual laws of success in my blog, especially the fifth spiritual law of success and the seventh law. It’s a good time to integrate them into your life.
Please, follow these three steps faithfully and you are going to see that they work like magic. I would recommend flower essences to help you in your professional career. These are my choices for you:
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The aspiration essence. Carries self with authority and conviction; secure in one’s place in the world.
Mairehau helps us to achieve results, perform at optimal level, feel strong and capable and get leadership skills. It’s a perfect essence when we feel overwhelmed by task or responsibilities.
The responsibility essence. It helps us to commit and brings rekindled optimism. It’s very useful when we have lost our sense of humour and we feel apathetic, hopeless. For utter despair.
Now it’s your turn. Leave me a comment explaining what your magic key was to changing jobs, so that you now do the job you dreamed of.